Today’s therapy session touched on relationships. Romantic relationships. I catch myself looking towards the other person to decide how far or how engaged we are going to be.
Simple things like “We’ll see if s/he calls” or “S/He’s too this or that” have huge implications for me. In either case I am putting the other person first.
My therapy session today reminded me that when I do this, I have to bring it back to me. What do I want? Such a simple question has huge implications for me.